Jesus says that the truth sets us free (John 8:32, NLT)
Truth produces transparency, peace, and rest. Lies produce deception, anxiety, and unrest,
Identify the lies you believe and begin to seek truth and act accordingly.
When you do, you will learn new ways of being, and in turn, produce a different kind of life.
This is hard work. It is not easy.
Allow God's spirit to lead you into truth and find some trusted friends that can help you.
Learn the truth about yourself, truth about others, and most importantly...the truth about Him.